Is It Really Possible To Be a Better Parent on Your Own, Giving Your Child an Incredible, Stable and Happy Life... And Have A Content and Enjoyable Life For Yourself?
The Answer is YES... And I'd Like To Share With You My Own Story of How I Went From A "Dependant Dad" to a "Super Father" Who Loves Raising Kids On His Own...Let me ask you a few questions...
Have you ever been afraid of "messing up" your child's life because you parent on your own?
Have you ever felt frustrated that you aren't in a loving relationship? Especially when you see your "childless" friends happy?
Do you get the feeling that you're not "in control" as much as you'd like to be when it comes to raising your child?
Are you ready to change your life NOW?
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My name is Tom and I personally struggled with questions like this for years.
And I will share my story with you in a bit...
But first I want to share a story with you from a woman who I am very close to.
Her name is Cassie and she's been a good friend for a long time.
I've known Cassie for over four years and recently she opened up to me about how she became a Single Mom...
I'd like you to read her story and ask yourself if you can relate to it.
Even if you didn't go through the exact same thing, there certainly are parts you can relate to.
Here is Cassie's story...
Cassie was never married, but she was in love.
And this time, she knew it was for real... not just from the way her boyfriend held her, but she could tell in her heart that they were meant to be together.
It was one of those "love at first sight" experiences that she had only seen on 'reality' tv.
The air smelled sweeter, everyone was friendly and no problem seemed too big.
She had been with her boyfriend Jack for eight months, six of which they lived in the same house.
And they shared everything together.
In fact, when she moved in with him she even got rid of her own futon because they were going to share his bed in their new place.
They were in a great relationship, where communication was good and they both felt like they were always 'in the clouds'.
And then it happened...
Cassie got pregnant.
Her pregnancy was a suprise... to both her and Jack.
Even though she was pretty young at the time, 21 to be exact, she was excited about the prospect of bringing a new baby into the world.
She always wanted to be "mom", it never became this real before.
She also saw it as a gift to solidify her love for Jack.
Not only could she share everything with him, but now they had something that was only theirs... A new life that together they could shape into a wonderful person.
She dreamed of starting a family, getting a home and even going on "family vacations".
But when she told Jack his reaction wasn't what she expected.
In fact, he even started talking about getting an abortion.
Cassie was instantly devistated...
She knew Jack loved her, but now she was faced with a big challenge: Keep the baby and lose Jack or, well, you get the picture...
It wasn't an easy choice, but it's one that Cassie knew she had to make.
Cassie knew from that moment she was going to choose her child.
Even though her baby wasn't born yet, it was the most sacred thing she'd ever done.
And that was it.
She knew the relationship was over... At least her relationship with Jack.
But what Cassie didn't realize is that a whole new life just began for her.
The life of being a Mom...
Does this sound familiar?
Maybe you didn't have exact same situation, but Cassie had to make a choice.
And it was the same choice you made: To Be A Parent At Any Cost.
My story is a little different... only with a bit of a role-reversal...
My Ex left our family when my daughter was only 2 years old.
Leaving behinded a stunned fiancé and a constantly questioning two year old.
In my own story, I took the things my Ex did personally...
I made the near-fatal mistake of making it about me.
I was wearing the badge of being the "victim" and I was letting myself and my child down.
I was handicapped in my own prison of pain, self-doubt and denial.
And it wasn't until after a conversation with another Father who had experience with a similar situation that I was inspired to build myself and my family back up... even without a mother to help me raise a child.
I started in a familiar place by going back to my journal entries...
Which also meant going back to a place of tremendous pain. But what resulted was something amazing...
In fact, I'd go so far as to say a life transformation that not only shifted everything back to something positive, but something WAY BETTER than what I had before.
Yes, I was still single... Yes, I was still a full time father with a full time job...
But I came out as someone who was stronger than before I was even IN a relationship!
And using my journal as a starting point, I started to talk to other Parents... Moms and Dads who I didn't even know felt the same way I did.
After posting to a few blogs, I found that even others outside of my immediate "world" were frustrated too.
But they were taking some really positive steps to remedy their pain.
They were dealing with some hard questions but then actually writing about positive things...
They took the negativity of the past and were replacing it with happiness in the present.
On the surface, I wasn't sure how they were doing it, but I knew that I wanted to find out.
The thing that really impressed me the most was that they were passionate about their parenting... Even without a partner to help.
I then picked up on similarities I saw and started to notice a sort of "thread" with all the happy parents.
This led to more research and more discussions with other Parents, many of whom were still Single.
This is when I discovered some of the secrets that have brought me from being a "great" parent to being a "Super Single Parent"... A Father who lives his life beyond the "badge" of being a Single Dad... I am now a Parent who is okay being Single and able to cope with anything and everything that comes my way.
And like putting on glasses for the first time, I was able to clearly see what I was doing to myself and my child.
This is what lead me to put everything down into words.
All the emotions that I dealt with in a negative way led me to take action.
POSTIVE action... And so much of it that I had to share this with all my friends who were in the same position as me.
And that action resulted in me sharing with the world the SECRETS that I came upon.
It wasn't easy, by any stretch of the imagination, to transform from a sad and depressed person into an amazing and happy Dad.
But now it's all documented... in an easy to read book.
I call it "Super Single Parenting" and beyond being about parenting, it's really a guide-book for life.
It's a new "paradigm", or a new way of THINKING about being a parent... with or without a partner in your life.
If you've read parenting books in the past that simply tell you to "take a bath and you'll feel better", you are in for a big surprise.
Unlike the conventional schools of thought, my book is about a new design... a new way of BEING that can reflect directly on your child and your life.
Just because you have a child and you're on your own doesn't mean that you have to be trapped by the past... It doesn't matter if you're a woman, a man or even a single GRANDPARENT, there is something in my book for YOU.
Regardless of your age, your experience or how many children you currently have in your life, if you are a Single Parent, or if you KNOW a Single Parent, you NEED to read this... These are the secrets your parents never knew about a new model of parenting...
You don't need to suffer from the past (or the present) any more.
This could be the most important investment you will ever make when it comes to your family and your self.
The cost of my book is only $9.97 and includes two bonus books I'll tell you about later... but I want to make sure it's right for you FIRST...
If you are unsatisfied with it, or don't think it will work for you, I'll refund the full amount in the first 7 days.
It's really that simple.
And it's really important to me for you to change your life.
If you're ready to make the change, click this download button and within the next 10 minutes you'll be on your way to being a Super Single Parent...
My book covers many areas when it comes to Single Parenting, ranging from dealing with relationship break-ups and past partners, temper tantrums from your kids and even how you can look and feel better...
Here Are Some Specifics You'll Learn...
Here are just a few things that you'll learn in "Super Single Parenting"...
When I first became Single again, I felt like I was alone. I felt like the emotional investment I'd made was going to be "wasted" and that I couldn't ever love anyone again...
It's Not Just About Being A Parent, But Also About Being A WHOLE PERSON!
This might sound silly when I say it, but it's really how I really felt.
I experienced a several emotions, from sadness, shock and fear... All at the same time.
And even if you don't feel as "extreme" as I did, there is something here that can help you through any challenge that you are facing... Be it emotional, physical or as a parent.
You see, my goal is not to make you a good single parent ... Chances are you're pretty good at it right now... And really, being a good parent is, well, GOOD.
In fact, I'm sure that you're even a GREAT parent.
My goal is to make you a SUPER Single Parent ...
And hey, if you don't owe it to yourself, don't you owe it to your family to be the best parent that you can be?
And here's the BIG SECRET...
It all starts within...
After all, if you aren't right with yourself it's going to reflect on your family and those around you.
And, to be honest with you, it's NOT about having priorities or placing an "order" on things...
You should have a good idea already of what's important to you...
All change begins with YOU. And even when you START to "master" your own life, you'll start to see it rubbing off on your co-workers, friends and most importantly of all on to your children.
It's like noticing a positive and productive change in others... You know, like when someone you work with gets a raise and all of sudden they seem "nicer" to you... or when a friend a friend is in love and all of a sudden they seem more "intense" as a person...
The reason to work on yourself is that you'll feel better and problems won't seem so overwhelming... and you can make choices that will bring you to a state of Super Single Parenting.
And the best part is that you'll naturally get there...
Once you master yourself, everything else will "magically" fall into place.
You see, "self work" translates over into your life in virtually every area that you work on.
If I Help One Single Parent... It's Worth It
And after the "self" it spills into your family and ultimately your community.
It's like a positive "domino effect".
Being a parent is only ONE of the many aspects of your life! And I certainly can relate to this first-hand...
Just like you, I wear many "hats"... I'm a father, a writer, a musician, a "technical guy" and I'm your friend... Even though I haven't met you.
I'm your friend because you've taken a step towards getting a better life and starting the journey into the wonderful and amazing world of parenting.
And for that, I really congratulate you.
In fact, even just reading the samples I offer below from my book are going to add value to your life immediately...
Value that you can take RIGHT NOW and begin using in your life INSTANTLY.
Think about this... If we can touch the lives of two other single parents out there, who make a positive impact on two other single parents we've started a "chain reaction" for the GOOD that this world needs.
Most of us have the same fears, but we also have the same hopes...
We all want our children to be happy and healthy... To enjoy a life that is worth living in an environment where they feel loved, they have freedom to express themselves and we want them to have an amazing childhood.
And this is why I wrote this book.
It's my goal that every single parent live a happy and fulfilled life for their children AND themselves...
You see, as much as we're traditionally told that it's all about "sacrifice", it's really all about creating the situations that benefit BOTH of you.
So, not only did I write the book that explains Parenting from a new perspective, I wrote two other books about subjects that I struggled with when I became single.
You Also Get Two BonusesWhen you download "Super Single Parenting" you also get two bonus books...
These books come together in the same download and offer unique insight into two key areas that I personally struggled with as a Single Parent... Cooking and Money.
You, being a provider, must not only feed your children and provide healthy meals, but you also need to buys pants, shoes and eventually help with College.
That's why I took time to tackle these specific areas and even placed them into their own books.
In the first bonus book, “31 Quick Dinner Recipes” I list an entire month's worth of dinner recipes with the Single Parent in mind.|
All recipes I list in this book take less then 10 minutes to prepare, are all great dinner ideas and have vegetarian alternatives.
This way you can please ALL the people in your home with a great meal at the end of the day.
In the second bonus book, “Planning Your Child's Financial Future” I go over tons of stuff about how your child will be taken care of should something happen to you...|
I cover how to create a Will so that your child will be your beneficiary, how to pass along Guardianship of your child as well as simple and easy to understand investment options for you to prepare for school or anything else that comes up in your child's life.
But the best part is that they come with my eBook as bonus books.
That's right... These come with my book at NO COST to you.
Here's How This Works...When you click on the order button below you'll be taken to my safe and secure shopping cart.
I've made sure to use the latest in encryption technology so that you can feel safe entering in your credit card information... and it's through PayPal, so you know it's safe!
When you're sent to the secure order page you'll be able to immediately download all these books as Adobe Acrobat PDF files.
If you currently don't have Adobe Acrobat reader installed on your computer, you can click here to get the free program.
Okay... Here's a recap...
You get everything:
How much would this be worth to you? A Hundred dollars? A Thousand dollars?
Really, it's virtually impossible to put a "value" on being a Super Single Parent.
And not just for your OWN child, but for the people your child interacts with and the people who come into your life.
P.S. Every idea, tip and technique that I share with you in this book is from the real world. And I believe my book can make you an INCREDIBLE Parent. Remember, you have a 100% satisfaction guarantee - if you're not happy, you have 7 days to check out the book. This is truly a 100% risk-free offer.
Here are few samples from the book and bonuses (so you can get an idea of the style and content). Just click the blue hyperlinks to read them (there are links back to this page at the bottom of each sample):
Quotes from "Super Single Parenting" Readers..."Tom's book, "Super Single Parenting" is truly essential reading for any parent who is working on maintaining a household alone. He tackles the big issues like dating, child discipline and dealing with exes as well as the more nuanced problems that people do not discover until it is too late. Every single parent should read this book, whether they are new to single parent-dom or have been raising kids alone for some time...very important, very easy to get and very helpful."
--Vanessa Van Petten, teen author of "You're Grounded!" and OnTeensToday.com
Your book has been a tremendously helpful tool in both mine and my ex's transitions with our selves and our own respective 'New Families', so first off, I express my ultimate gratitude... I am the father of a six-year-old son, who, on top of starting school this year, also saw his life change drastically when his mother moved out of our home. Defiance and behavior issues both at home and at school were quick to surface.
His mom and I tossed around ideas as to how we could make things easier for us all, and spending time together as the 'Old Family' was mentioned but quickly extinguished and forgotten about-- until we read your book and reevaluated the idea. Once every couple of weeks we will meet at the park, or for pizza, or at the children's theater, and the change in our son's (and our own) attitude since spending this time together has been monumental.
I've recommended the book to friends and continue to reference it on a regular basis. Thank you again, and best wishes on your journey with your own 'New Family'."
--Lucas S., North Carolina
"I hate hate HATE self-help books, as most of them come across much like textbooks, but yours is something completely different.
The style in which you deliver your message is easy to understand, therefore making the content easy to apply. From the tips on money management, to personal image, to duality, your book covers the incredibly broad spectrum of issues we're constantly faced with on the day-to-day. Your conversational prose makes me feel less like I'm pummeling through a mess of words and more like I'm sitting and having a discussion on the many aspects of life in general, and as a single parent. The topics are not marginalized, nor are they blown out of proportion; you simply deliver practical, realistic advice, and that is something I deeply appreciate and have otherwise been unable to find in similar publications. Thank you for creating and making available such a user-friendly and ultimately helpful tool. It is sure to aid any person who downloads it."
--Audrey B., Fort Lauderdale, FL
Since my daughter was born I have been a single parent. I've had a lot of difficulty setting goals for myself.. actually, I never really even tried. I've been so wrapped up in all the negativities in life and of how hard it is to raise a child alone.
My mom heard of your book and downloaded it for me. I have to admit that before reading it I was already wanting to write it off, but I was SO wrong! I've been in a rut for two years, and reading the book and doing the exercises have changed everything.
I especially love the part about transmutation. I finally started setting goals for myself and actually reaching them. The dating advice was awesome too. I realize it's ok to be picky, and though I haven't found a Mr. Right yet I've been able to go out and talk to and have a nice time with men... and I even have my first date in nearly three years coming up this weekend.
Your book has helped me to stop behaving like a victim and to actually enjoy the world around me. I feel better than ever, and have a brand new respect for the happiness living can bring, even for a single mom. Thank you for helping me find some inspiration!"
--Marisa, Ames, IA
"Bubbles! Tom, you are a life saver! My daughter was 'passed around' between myself, my ex, and three sets of grandparents for a few months while things were still a little rough after the big break-up. Of course we all had a different set of rules and boundaries for her, and this caused a lot of confusion.. and LOTS of fits. Things finally calmed and I was awarded custody, but the tantrums remained and were unbearable, and I was completely powerless to deal with them. Desperate, I searched for help and found your book.
I stopped with bullying and started with bubbles, and evolved to utilize your tips for dealing with these outbursts; and now we are able to get through the (now rare) tantrums in a mature manner and actually resolve problems as they occur. We are much closer now than we have ever been, and it's an amazing confidence boost for both of us.
Your book has also helped me develop not only into a better parent, but into a better person. I realize now how important it is for me to be on top of my personal game if I'm going to be at all successful with my daughter. There are so many practical ideas to help a person achieve greater and greater possibilites. I really hope others gain as much as I have from your book. It's a great success. Thanks!"
--Aaron B., Parma, OH
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